I've mellowed out a lot.

Mellowed, matured, call it what you will, but it's true.   A couple things happened to me this week that I think not too long ago would have made me go on facebook, or here to spout off about it and post it so everyone in the internet could see it.  I'm not going to go into specifics, but let's just say it's been conflicts between me and friends as well as friends of friends and leave it at that.   It would help no one for me to say more than that.   As what I mean about mellowed.   A few months ago I would have said everything.   It took me until I was almost 40 to figure it out.